Let’s explore the idea of having an amazing orgasm without ejaculation, a dry orgasm, as they call it.
Please, read this together with your lover, you are both in this!
As you both embark on this therapy journey, I want to create a safe space where we can explore both of your perspectives and feelings regarding this delicate subject.
It’s perfectly valid for you to seek emotional understanding of this process, as our psychological state can significantly impact our erotic experiences.
To begin, let’s reflect on a common belief that ejaculation is the ultimate goal of erotic intimacy as the only source of pleasure. But, in fact, focusing solely on ejaculation can lead to feelings of tiredness, almost like a loss of energy.
Many men feel quite drained and lose interest in sex after climaxing.
Furthermore, when we consider that the average duration of penetration is approximately 5.4 minutes, it highlights that many men today might not be engaging in intimacy for extended periods of time.
This understanding can help us address feelings of frustration or disappointment that may arise in your couple relationship.
Think about this: for there to be semen, there needs to be sufficient physical energy. Did you know that one drop of semen is equivalent to about 50 drops of blood in terms of energy expended? By learning to control ejaculation, you not only enhance pleasure during sexual encounters but also conserve this essential energy.
According to Tantric teachings, there’s so much more to masculine sexuality than this conventional understanding. We hear stories of tantric men being able to make love for hours without ejaculation, and you might wonder: is that really possible? Why would any man choose not to reach climax? In our ejaculation-obsessed culture, many men feel that without that peak, the experience feels incomplete.
Let’s explore this mystery together, both biologically and emotionally. It’s essential to understand that orgasm and ejaculation, while often thought of as one and the same, are actually two distinct processes that can occur independently, as they are distinct experiences..
Let’s begin with the understanding of orgasm’s meaning:
Orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal characterized by intense pleasure and a series of involuntary muscular contractions, particularly in the pelvic region. During this moment, a range of physical changes occurs that brings a wave of pleasurable sensations. Alongside these physical responses, neurological changes take place in the brain, involving the release of hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, which elevate the feelings of pleasure and emotional connection with your lover.
Important indeed, the emotional and psychological aspects play a significant role in this experience. Factors such as mood, intimacy openness and your shared mental state can deeply influence orgasms, making them not just a physical response, but a holistic experience. The main factor is the love you share with your lover, the godly union of your beings.
Now let’s discuss ejaculation:
Ejaculation is more of a physiological phenomenon involving the release of semen, which typically occurs at the climax of sexual arousal, that often accompanies orgasm, but not always. It involves specific physiological phases that can be more reflexive in nature. While ejaculation usually coincides with orgasm, it is not a given. Some men experience ejaculation without orgasm, and vice versa, which is something that can happen under various circumstances, due to health conditions or through specific sexual practices.
Now, let’s consider how this can transform your erotic experiences. When you, as a man, learn to manage his ejaculation, he gains the power to choose when, if and how to release that energy. This skill empowers you to retain the erotic energy for personal rejuvenation. Now we can talk about erotic powerful passion, not only animalic, instinctive sex-drive.
Tantra encourages us to rise up our erotic energy throughout our lives. The tantric orgasms have the potential to revitalize you on a cellular level, positively moving energy through your body and promoting overall health, along with a godly state of love.
So, do you believe it’s possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation?
In Tantra, they teach that our erotic plays can elevate our consciousness and foster deep connection in the couple. This erotic sensations you share with your lover are both profoundly loving and divine.
Here’s what we can focus on next: the key is to create a whole-body reaction as orgasm builds, then to pause just before the point of ejaculation. By doing this, you may feel waves of pleasure that can lead to a kind of blissful chill, intense and deeply satisfying. , all while retaining your seminal energy.
This means that without actually losing that erotic energy, you can have multiple dry-orgasms in one session, without facing that refractory period many are familiar with.
Remember, the physiological processes of ejaculation and orgasm are separate from one another. With practice and the right techniques, it is possible to experience intense orgasms while keeping control of ejaculation.
To achieve this, we’ll incorporate some breathing exercises that will help you. Let’s take a moment to breathe deeply together and begin to tune into your body. Feel the connection between relaxation and arousal.
Ready? Let’s embark on this journey towards mastering the art of experiencing pleasure beyond ejaculation, fell the joy of having an orgasm without ejaculation.
One fundamental physical practice to consider is to strengthen the pelvic floor and perineum muscles.
There is a growing awareness of techniques designed to help separate these two experiences. For instance, some men practice tantric methods or Kegel exercises to gain greater control over their sexual response, which can lead to satisfying orgasms without the necessity for ejaculation. Tantric experts say that the results start to be noticeable six weeks after training.
Focus on Exercises
In any setting, standing, or lying in bed pose, you, as a man, can practice contracting your anal sphincter. And you, as a woman, can practice contracting your vaginal muscles.
Aim to hold the contraction as tightly and as long as you can before relaxing and contracting again. Repeat this cycle ten times in each session, and remember to practice multiple sessions to see improvement. Additionally, while urinating, try to interrupt the flow multiple times. This will further enhance your control in the pelvic muscles, and you’ll see how this will impact your future love-makings.
If you learn to orgasm without ejaculating, the energy of life will circulate within your body. This enables you to experience multiple orgasms and, ultimately, full-body orgasms that infuse him with vitality and bliss, resonating from head to toe. Your lover will follow your state of happiness.
The journey to becoming multi-orgasmic involves training your body to move and expand erotic energy throughout your system. As you practice, you’ll find that your body becomes increasingly adapted at channeling arousal. This shift allows you to experience expanded, full-body orgasms.
When you master the Tantric orgasms, you experience a deeper kind of pleasure that spreads throughout your entire body.
By gaining control over ejaculation, you and your lover can connect on a much deeper level. This not only strengthens the trust and security between you two but also tends to ease any concerns she might have about pregnancy during those precious moments.
This trust and sense of safety will make her feel more cherished. That way, she can fully engage and immerse herself in the experience, leading to a richer connection for both of you.
The truth is, every man can become an incredible lover, but it requires patience, skill, and training. I believe every man longs to witness his woman in a state of deep ecstasy, loving him for what he shares with her, control of the body, presence of the mind, assuring her of all his love an passion, along with a heightened awareness.
Show empathy for each other through this understanding.
It’s crucial for you, as a couple, to navigate these experiences together.
For you as a man, seeking to comprehend the biological and emotional aspects can be gold for your self-esteem and for understanding your own sexual response. Recognizing that this is not solely about performance but also about intimacy and emotional connection is vital.
For you as an woman, it’s understandable that you desire certain passion, but also a great awareness during intimacy, and expressing this need to your lover can grow a deeper emotional connection between the two of you.
I’m here to support you as you navigate these complex feelings. It’s perfectly normal to want to understand both the biological mechanisms at play and the emotional layers surrounding these experiences.
Emerging from this journey with clarity and self-acceptance can be incredibly liberating.
Please know you’re not alone in this, and I want to create a safe space for you to explore these feelings further. Let’s dive deeper into what this means for you personally, and how we can work together to enhance your understanding and overall erotic well-being.
If you really want to enrich your life as a couple, we invite you to book a session of Couple Therapy and grow together on the tantric path.
If you want to deepen intimacy in your happy couple, you could attend one of the Couples Massage programs, organized by Enjoy Godly Rituals.
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