Advice for lovers who feel emotionally disconnected as a couple
For those couples that haven’t made love in a long time.
Open and Honest Communication
The first step to rebuilding intimacy is to have an honest and open dialogue about your feelings and concerns. Try to discuss without prejudice and actively listen to what your lover has to say. This helps build trust and understanding.
Helpful questions may include:
How can I contribute to your happiness?
Which of my actions would make you feel more loved and appreciated?
Conscious touch – couples massage
Massage is a great way to reawaken your body connection through conscious touch. Start with small, with simple non-sexual gestures, like holding hands, hugging, and cuddling, that can strengthen your bond. You can start with a relaxing massage, focusing on tense areas of the body. Use essential oils in an aroma diffuser to create a relaxing and intimate atmosphere.
We invite you to reserve a few hours a day for a mutual massage workshop as a couple, where, under the guidance of a professional, expert in tantric massage, you can enjoy this wonderful experience for 2.
You will see what the Couple’s Massage is all about at our Enjoy Godly Rituals center.
Looking Eye to Eye
Spend a few minutes each day looking into each other’s eyes, with love and transfiguration, without speaking, just smiling. This exercise can create a deep connection and help reconnect you emotionally. It’s a powerful way to feel intimately and erotically closer to each other.
Quality Time Together
Be present! Be fully present during your interactions without distractions. Put away your phones and focus on each other. This shows that you value your time together. Engage in new activities or hobbies together, activities you both enjoy. This can relieve stress and create excitement and strengthen your bond.
Emotional Support
Be there! Offer support during tough times. Show that you care and are willing to help.
Celebrate Successes! Share in each other’s joys and achievements. Laugh together and enjoy light-hearted moments.
Love letters
Compliment and express your love verbally or in writing. This reinforces your emotional connection.
Write love letters to each other. WhatsApp is the service postman, who has taken the place of Cupid in the age of technology, so… Come on! Express your feelings, the beautiful memories you already had together and manifest the wishes for what you want to do in the future.
Reading these letters / instant texts can create a deep emotional connection with the other, even during the day when each of you is at work, and can rekindle feelings of love and appreciation. Then in the evening, you arrive home in a different mood to be together.
Vulnerability
Share Personal Stories and feel free to talk about your past experiences, dreams, and fears to deepen your understanding of each other. Discuss your needs and desires openly. This helps in meeting each other’s expectations.
Practicing Gratitude
Express your gratitude to each other as often as possible. Acknowledging and appreciating the positive qualities of the loved one can strengthen the erotic connection and mutual trust. Each day, tell yourself a few things you are grateful for in your relationship. This can strengthen the communion of your souls on a long run. Other people have no one to go home to. You do! Appreciate that.
Take it easy
Don’t be in a rush to get back to an super active sex life, so… all of a sudden! If you haven’t made love in a long time, build the eros gradually and focus on emotional reconnection and then the physical chemistry will follow. It is important that you both feel comfortable and that everything comes naturally.
Couple therapy
If you feel that you cannot overcome these obstacles by yourselves, couples therapy can be a beneficial solution. A specialized sex therapist from Enjoy Godly Rituals can guide you through the Couples Therapy in the process of reconnection and offer you personalized techniques and strategies to revitalize intimacy in your couple.
Conclusion
These activities recommended here are intended to help couples reconnect emotionally and physically, rediscover the pleasure of conscious touch, and create erotically fulfilling moments together.
Building emotional intimacy takes time and effort, but the rewards are well worth it. By incorporating these practices into your relationship, you can create a deeper, more meaningful connection with your lover.
Every couple vibrates and evolves in a unique way, so it’s important to find the activities that work best for you. Growing back together emotionally and revitalizing intimacy in a relationship takes time, patience, and effort on the part of both lovers.
Through open communication, gestures of affection, and, if necessary, the help of a therapist, you can rediscover deep connection and satisfaction in your love and erotic relationship.
Remember that every action counts and that the evolutionary process can have significant benefits for both of you.
If you want to deepen intimacy in your life as a couple, we invite you to attend the Couples Massage programs, organized by Enjoy Godly Rituals.
Dare to love each over!
Enjoy all the way!
Therapist: Daniela Berbece
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Email: contact@enjoygodlyrituals.com
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